Read this your Freshman year of High School

Some truth for you son. from your Dad.

Girls will always love and be found of you, you don't need to rush into a relationship, waiting for one that is different in every way is always a good plan. With that being said, there is no need to have a girlfriend in High School. That's time to focus on school, sports, and friendships. Those are the relationships that will last and the moments that will develop you. You don't need a girl to define your status, you define who you are and no one else. High School is tough enough and girls are way more unstable at that point. Keeping girls as friends is the best bet in high school, you don't need to complicate it with "benefits" they aren't your employer. Understand that you will feel the urge to put your penis in every girl with a short skirt but that urge is controlled by prayer and focus. Sticking your penis in things might seem like fun but it will only end up getting you in trouble. First of all her father is likely to kill you and I won't stop him. Secondly, everything is so awkward at that stage you are more likely to embarrass yourself. Lastly, any girl that says "lets do it" or any form of that, is trouble Straight up and you need to run. Just turn and run, any direction, just get gone and fast. Don't worry about explaining yourself, you don't even need pants. The door is a good place to start. Avoiding that situation is going to save you a lot of just complicated nonsense. Their trouble at that age and they don't get any less dangerous, they just get better at hiding it. Stay focused on school and just ride out the crazy emotions that you are experiencing, they don't go away, you just get better at controlling them. High school is a fun time and you should enjoy it but you have to remember that you will always pay the consequences for your choice, whether it be now or later. Develop a reputation for integrity.

Don't worry, by the time you get to college you will find there are even more girls that are going to fall in love with you. I'd suggest focusing on school, girls take a lot of time and money from you, there is no avoiding it. If you do decide to date, don't be nervous, any girl would be lucky to talk to you. Women enjoy attention just as much as you do, so be careful the attention you are giving them and the signal your are sending with that attention. You don't need to worry about having any previous dating experience, if you can make friends you can easily determine the plausibility of a true relationship flourishing into a piece of art designed by God. Trust me, no experience is required when it comes to dating women. Coffee is always a nice neutral setting where you can learn more about a woman than if you both thought it was a date. The easiest way to avoid emotional confusion and think reasonably about a relationship is to avoid the physical aspect for as long as possible. You will find it easy to love people but the only way to fully love a woman is without lust. Control your thoughts and you will control your emotions. Consider each girl you date carefully, you will leave a lasting impression on them and they will do the same to you. Make sure it's always a good impression that leaves her better than when she first met you. You aren't Prince Charming and in no way a Super Hero, so don't try to be. If you meet a girl that is looking for that, you'll have to inform her that you are Kyler and you will always try your best but it's impossible to live up to the unrealistic expectation that you will rescue them from their problems. You can most certainly help along the way and be supportive but you don't even want to try the job of super hero, that's best left to Jesus, try not to get in the way.

All in all son, you'll find the one that's been designed to better you everyday and you will better her. No need to rush any of it. You have time, trust me. You'll have to trust that God's plan is always better than yours. So when yours doesn't work, get excited, because it means God has better things planned. Remember, high school is only 4 years and when it comes down to it only one 20th of your life, that's like nothing. You'll survive that time, just make sure you have good friends not girlfriends. Trust God and hold on to the fact that when you can't see where he is taking you, you know it's better than the way you wanted to go. Keep your penis to yourself. After 4 years old it's not cute and no one wants to see it and it's better if you keep it in your pants.

Love Ya,
Dad

100 Quotes and inspiration

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"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." Plato

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"Don't wait for people to be friendly, show them how." Author Unknown

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"For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind." Ralph Waldo Emerson

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"For peace of mind, resign as general manager of the universe." Author Unknown

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“You must do the things you think you cannot do." Eleanor Roosevelt

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"Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value." Albert Einstein

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"Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength." Dalai Lama

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"When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself." Wayne Dyer

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"Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure." Oprah Winfrey

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"Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine." Anthony J. D'Angelo

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"Faith can move mountains, but don't be surprised if God hands you a shovel." Author Unknown

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"Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase." Martin Luther King Jr.

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"In the midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you." Deepak Chopra

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"Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier." Mother Teresa

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"To be what you want to be, you must give up being what you are." Cat Stevens

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"Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care." Theodore Roosevelt

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"To bring anything into your life, imagine that it's already there!" Richard Bach

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"To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift." Steve Prefontaine

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"Change the changeable, accept the unchangeable, and remove yourself from the unacceptable." Denis Waitley

20

"Don't frown because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile." Author Unknown

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"Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn." Harriet Beecher Stowe

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"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." Mahatma Gandhi

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"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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"If you judge people, you have no time to love them." Mother Teresa

25

"Too many people miss the silver lining because they're expecting gold." Maurice Setter

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"Rule number one is, don't sweat the small stuff. Rule number two is, it's all small stuff." Robert Eliot

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"Faith is building on what you know is here, so you can reach what you know is there." Cullen Hightower

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"Regardless of your lot in life, you can build something beautiful on it." Zig Ziglar

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"All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them." Walt Disney

30

"Anywhere is paradise; it's up to you." Author Unknown

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"Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out." Art Linkletter

32

"Small deeds done are better than great deeds planned." Peter Marshall

33

"Don't find fault. Find a remedy." Henry Ford

34

"Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced." James Baldwin

35

"Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers." Garth Brooks

36

"You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you." Walt Disney

37

"When it is dark enough, you can see the stars." Ralph Waldo Emerson

38

"The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears." John Vance Cheney

39

"The darkest hour has only sixty minutes." Morris Mandel

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"When you're feeling your worst, that's when you get to know yourself the best." Leslie Grossman

41

"An apology is the superglue of life. It can repair just about anything." Lynn Johnston

42

"In faith there is enough light for those who want to believe and enough shadows to blind those who don't." Blaise Pascal

43

"Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened." Dr. Seuss

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"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you." Lewis Smedes

45

"Do all things with love." Og Mandino

46

"Remember, if you're headed in the wrong direction, God allows U-turns!" Allison Gappa Bottke

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"Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth." Benjamin Disraeli

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"Believe deep down in your heart that you're destined to do great things." Joe Paterno

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"Be kind whenever possible....It is always possible." Dalai Lama

50

"Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow." Anthony J. D'Angelo

51

"If you cannot lift the load off another's back, do not walk away. Try to lighten it." Frank Tyger

52

"You don't have to be great to start - but you have to start to be great." John C. Maxwell

53

"It's kind of fun to do the impossible." Walt Disney

54

"Everyone wants to be appreciated, so if you appreciate someone, don't keep it a secret." Mary Kay Ash

55

"To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded." Ralph Waldo Emerson

56

"To see things in the seed, that is genius." Lao Tzu

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"If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." Peace Pilgrim

58

"Say not, 'I have found the truth,' but rather, 'I have found a truth.'" Kahlil Gibran

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"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference." Winston Churchill

60

"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault

61

"Whenever you fall, pick something up." Oswald Avery

62

"The impossible can always be broken down into possibilities." Author Unknown

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"Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." Alex Karras

64

"Some days there won't be a song in your heart. Sing anyway." Emory Austin

65

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell

66

"Excellence is not a skill. It is an attitude. " Ralph Marston

67

"Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional." M. Kathleen Casey

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"Turn your wounds into wisdom." Oprah Winfrey

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"Sometimes in tragedy we find our life's purpose - the eye sheds a tear to find its focus." Robert Brault

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"He who has a why to live can bear almost any how." Friedrich Nietzsche

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"Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars." Violeta Parra

72

"The gem cannot be polished without friction nor man without trials." Confucius

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"Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark." Rabindranath Tagore

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"Clean out a corner of your mind and creativity will instantly fill it." Dee Hock

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"Imagine no limitations; decide what's right and desirable before you decide what's possible." Brian Tracy

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"If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude." Maya Angelou

77

"Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience." Ralph Waldo Emerson

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"Be careless in your dress if you will, but keep a tidy soul." Mark Twain

79

"Whatever good things we build end up building us." Jim Rohn

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"If you cannot be a poet, be the poem." David Carradine

81

"Never look down on someone unless you're helping them up." Jesse Jackson

82

"Everything comes to us that belongs to us if we create the capacity to receive it." Rabindranath Tagore

83

"An old belief is like an old shoe. We so value its comfort that we fail to notice the hole in it." Robert Brault

84

"Remember when you see a man at the top of a mountain, he didn't fall there." Author Unknown

85

"Peace begins with a smile." Mother Teresa

86

"We cannot direct the wind but we can adjust the sails." Author Unknown

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"A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world; everyone you meet is your mirror." Ken Keyes, Jr.

88

"Turn your face to the sun and the shadows fall behind you." Maori Proverb

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"A promise is a cloud; fulfillment is rain." Arabian Proverb

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"Be content to act, and leave the talking to others." Baltasar Gracian

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"If your work speaks for itself, don't interrupt." Henry J. Kaiser

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"The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps - we must step up the stairs." Vance Havner

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"The best way out of a problem is through it." Author Unknown

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"People may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do." Lewis Cass

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"A bend in the road is not the end of the road... unless you fail to make the turn." Author Unknown

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"The only thing that overcomes hard luck is hard work." Harry Golden

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"Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution. If you don't have any problems, you don't get any seeds." Norman Vincent Peale

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"The difficulties of life are intended to make us better, not bitter." Author Unknown

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"How can something bother you if you won't let it?" Terri Guillemets

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"Doubt is a pain too lonely to know that faith is his twin brother." Kahlil Gibran